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		<title>I would love some direction&#8230;not desperation!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 08:09:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My situation does require immediate action on my part to locate a new home for my two son's and myself. Short term assistance and direction. My plea is for immediate assitance and to find a source that believes in the strength, courage and power of a woman that must make a change in her life now. This is how we all come together to be the change we want to see in the world. I am the Ecko...do you hear me? I SEE YOU TOO!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you all for reading and responding. My situation does require immediate action on my part to locate a new home for my two son&#8217;s and myself. I am dependable, reliable and very worthy. I just need some short term assistance and direction.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have time for all of the online schemes and scams. I am seriously looking for financial assistance to relocate my family. I don&#8217;t have family resources available, my parents are years deceased. My Father in Viet Nam and my Mother from Pancreatic Cancer, I am from a family if nine children, we all work very hard to have a good and loving life. I am a product of love and that is my gift to this world. I am an &#8220;Inspiration&#8221;, that is my purpose.  All I have is faith in mankind, and to be a true expression of  love!</p>
<p>If you can help direct me to any resources that can help immediately;  I am forever grateful to you! I don&#8217;t have the time to process and wait for grants and that sort of thing  or to invest in some &#8220;guaranteed&#8221; or  &#8221;money making&#8221; scheme! We need help immediately. I never want to take take my children to a homeless shelter to make it another day. I have done this before.</p>
<p>I have been a very successful airline executive, owned my own advertising and promotions in Hawaii for 12 years. I know how to love and to live life. I have great plans for my new Life Coaching business and will be certified in  just a few months. My needs and my  plea is for immediate assitance and to find a source that believes in the strength, courage and power of a woman that must make a change in her life now, today. Yes, this is scary, intimidating and at times downright overwhelming.</p>
<p>The point is that I know that I can do this&#8230;my life and my son&#8217;s live&#8217;s depends upon my ability to make great things happen now at this time in their lives. I&#8217;ve been Pro-Per for 6 years in Family Law up against three different Attorneys and I can stand up today and can say that I have been victorious in 40+ Court appearance and trials. My son&#8217;s are winning and I now must make even harder decisions and move on in their best interest. I have found that my beliefs from pure intentions and love never fail&#8230;Never!</p>
<p>I will gladly share my plans and dreams if you care and are interested in working with me. Please feel me in your heart, take the chance to contact me, I will honestly give you the bottom line. I just ask for love and support and I promise it will return to you ten-fold plus. Is it worth a simple call or email to You? Might this be that special situation your heart has been called to in your life of service to another? We trust and believe in that.</p>
<p>This is how we all come together to be the change we want to see in the world.<strong> I am that change, I am doing it!</strong> Yes I need support at this time. Won&#8217;t you please search your heart for what you are here to do and know that &#8220;I&#8221; and my family are part of your contribution in this precious lifetime. Thank you&#8230;this is how <strong>we</strong> change the world. You help me and enable me to help thousands&#8230;just wait to hear my dreams and plans&#8230;I am but a ripple in the pond! I am the &#8220;Ecko&#8221; ( spelled that way on purpose!)&#8230;do you hear me? I hear you and I SEE YOU! I love you!</p>
<p>To show my purest and truest desire&#8230;I put my personal email and phone number right here before all of you. I trust in God, the Universe and the power of the Love in the Divine to work on our behalf to keep us safe, secure and most of all loved!</p>
<p>With a heart filled with gratitude,</p>
<p>Kathi</p>
<p>Contact me at (530) 872-8496 or email me at <a href="mailto:live-life-today@live.com">live-life-today@live.com</a></p>
<p>With a little help from people that care, you will see the difference I can make in this world. We are given challenges to learn and overcome, at some point we learn that it is not an &#8220;I&#8221; but a &#8220;WE&#8217; that makes us all &#8220;ONE!&#8221;</p>
<p>I  SEE YOU,  I Love you, I thank you, please forgive me, I am sorry!</p>
<p>in light and love,  Kathi</p>
<p>&copy;2010 <a href="http://www.livinglifeonlifesterms.com">Living Life On Lifes Terms</a>. All Rights Reserved.</p>.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I really need some support and help!&#8230;Please!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 11:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[They say "When life hands you lemon's, you make lemonade...right? Well my life just turned upside down. I am in need of support and some help ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They say &#8220;When life hands you lemon&#8217;s, you make lemonade&#8230;right? Well my life just turned upside down and went south or side-ways or whatever one may call it. I am in need of support and some help and I&#8217;m not sure of the correct way to approach this or handle this. Please read and reply&#8230;please!</p>
<p>I will not call myself a &#8220;victim&#8221;! I will say that domestic violence has reached it&#8217;s end in my life! My fiancee of 7 years is now in the county jail for a few months. I must relocate my 2 son&#8217;s and myself within the next 2 weeks. I am currently medically disabled with post-chemo medical conditions and not released yet to even work part-time. I am determined to regain my health and my life. I have no family or resources available. I will get through this stronger and more powerful than ever and I am determined to provide a stable and loving environment for my 14 and 12 yr. old sons. I believe in miracles. I believe in ME! I believe in the power of LOVE and the Oneness of all. I currently can&#8217;t even put up a deposit for rent, electricity, phone, trash etc. If you would like to contact me directly, please do so right away! I will post my PayPal account and I ask if you can spare even $1.00 to $20.00 or even pocket change; we will be forever grateful to you! I will keep you posted of our progress and changes that are definitely happening as I write this and ask for donations. I have no idea if this is proper or correct&#8230;all I know is that I am asking for your help, right now and today!</p>
<p>With love and gratitude&#8230;my boy&#8217;s and I send you hugs just for reading this today. We trust  and have faith! Your time and even a dollar will be a part of the miracles we are all creating. You will see photo&#8217;s and videos from me as we make this awesome transformation! Thank you! I love you!</p>
<p>Kathi</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to figure out the Pay pal Plug in at the moment. If you would please go to PayPal my account is under Kathi Davis&#8230;oh thank you and may you have a love filled day!</p>
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		<title>Absence Makes My Heart Grow Fonder!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 09:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This site will thrive just as my life is. It has not necessarily been an easy growth process, but I wouldn't have missed this for the world! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some day&#8217;s I feel a sense of guilt for my initial plans for this website. I have been side tracked with some very powerful personal growth. My site here will reflect that in a very short time. This site will thrive just as my life is. It has not necessarily been an easy growth process, but I wouldn&#8217;t have missed this for the world! So if you by chance stumble upon this lonely site today&#8230;add it to your favorites or bookmark it, RSS feed&#8230;it is coming to life in such a powerful and new way. I&#8217;ll be making allot of changes&#8230;but hey&#8230;it&#8217;s all good!&#8230;it&#8217;s all love. I&#8217;m excited to begin&#8230;just bare with me, you are in for and incredible experience! So am I!</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 10:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For those of you that know me and those of you just getting to know me&#8230;I invite you to listen in Wednesday, January 6, 2010 at 1 PM PST to ECKO Coaching Radio with our Host; Nanice Ellis on Blog Talk Radio. Our topic will be &#8220;The Courage to Be the Real YOU!&#8221; I will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For those of you that know me and those of you just getting to know me&#8230;I invite you to listen in Wednesday, January 6, 2010 at 1 PM PST to ECKO Coaching Radio with our Host; Nanice Ellis on Blog Talk Radio. Our topic will be &#8220;The Courage to Be the Real YOU!&#8221; I will be on the the show with Nanice and Kelly, truly incredible women. Our shows are archived immediately&#8230;so if you miss the initial live show, you are welcome to come listen at your convenience to our archived shows. You may call in for free Life Coaching during our show. There is so much insight, intuition and truth shared in this broadcast&#8230;it is life transforming, awe inspiring and thought provoking! Come join us and share in this incredible and remarkable experience. Every Wednesday at 1 pm PST &#8211; <a href="http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%253A%252F%252Fwww.blogtalkradio.com%252Fnaniceellis&amp;h=d818c2764577c4d21ce78e21f7334e10&amp;ref=mf" target="_blank">NaniceEllis on Blog Talk Radio</a> please call in at   (917) 889-7988     Talk to you there! Thank You!</p>
<p>&copy;2010 <a href="http://www.livinglifeonlifesterms.com">Living Life On Lifes Terms</a>. All Rights Reserved.</p>.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>We are in need of Clients for Free Life Coaching!</title>
		<link>http://www.livinglifeonlifesterms.com/?p=333</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 10:13:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ECKO Coaching SCHOOL is seeking clients to coach. The students of ECKO need clients who are willing to be coached by phone or SKYPE. Men and Women may apply – worldwide. You must first apply and if you are selected, you will be eligible for at least 1 to 2 Free Coaching Sessions of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The ECKO Coaching SCHOOL is seeking clients to coach. The students of ECKO need clients who are willing to be coached by phone or SKYPE. Men and Women may apply – worldwide. You must first apply and if you are selected, you will be eligible for at least 1 to 2 Free Coaching Sessions of about 1 hour each. For more information and to apply and join us see -</p>
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<p>This offer could change your life&#8230;or just help you change YOU! What have you got to loose? Everything to gain!</p>
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		<title>Introducing You to Nanice Ellis and ECKO Coaching Institute</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 11:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nanice Ellis is the Founder and Facilitator of ECKO Coaching Institue. The first class; a pilot program has been open to women only, I am a Student of Ecko Life Coaching. This is an experience beyond and a journey within to integrate all facets of who I/we reallly are. Here is an excerpt of just [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nanice Ellis is the Founder and Facilitator of ECKO Coaching Institue. The first class; a pilot program has been open to women only, I am a Student of Ecko Life Coaching. This is an experience beyond and a journey within to integrate all facets of who I/we reallly are. Here is an excerpt of just one of her reular post to her students. I invite you to get to know Nanice Ellis and ECKO Coaching Institute.</p>
<p><strong>From Nanice Ellis:</strong></p>
<p>It is no secret that Separation causes Suffering; but how exactly do we<br />
cause separation?</p>
<p>Here is a short, yet incomplete, list of some of the best ways to create<br />
separation:</p>
<p>    * Make others wrong<br />
    * Try to make others to do the things we think they should do<br />
    * Believe we know better<br />
    * Not listen<br />
    * Interrupt<br />
    * Be distracted<br />
    * Close our hearts &#8211; inhibit our love<br />
    * Threaten others<br />
    * Make others prove themselves (that they are worthy)<br />
    * Think we should have power over others<br />
    * Try to control others and control situations<br />
    * Feel sorry for someone (see them as powerless)<br />
    * Shift responsibility onto others<br />
    * Lie, cheat or steal<br />
    * Withhold our feelings<br />
    * Judge someone in any way<br />
    * Hold a grudge<br />
    * Compete<br />
    * Talk or think badly about someone<br />
    * Not pay attention</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how to connect and create oneness:</p>
<p>    * Respect Others<br />
    * Allow people to do things the way they want to do them<br />
    * Honor the beliefs of others even if we don’t agree<br />
    * Really Listen<br />
    * Allow others the space to express themselves<br />
    * Be Present<br />
    * Open our hearts – love without inhibitions<br />
    * Support others<br />
    * See others as unconditionally worthy<br />
    * See others as equally powerful<br />
    * Allow people to be who they are<br />
    * Have compassion for others (yet see their power and perfection)<br />
    * Take responsibility<br />
    * Be in integrity<br />
    * Express feelings<br />
    * Accept others<br />
    * Forgive<br />
    * Work together<br />
    * Talk and think positively about others<br />
    * Pay Attention</p>
<p>&#8211;</p>
<p>/Be The Change You Want To See In The World &#8211; Take THE PLEDGE!<br />
&lt;<a href="wlmailhtml:{B0C96B1D-0303-4288-A256-6962D856E2D3}mid://00000456/!x-usc:http://www.nanice.com/The-PLEDGE-103.html">http://www.nanice.com/The-PLEDGE-103.html</a>&gt;</p>
<p>An Abundance of Peace, Prosperity and Love<br />
Nanice</p>
<p>    Global Facilitator of Peaceful Awakening<br />
    Founder and Facilitator of ECKO Coaching Institute<br />
    Theta Healer<br />
    Master NLP Practitioner<br />
    Hypno-therapist<br />
    Life Coach<br />
    International Author<br />
    Radio Host of “Chai with Nanice”<br />
    Voice for World Oneness</p>
<p><a href="http://www.Nanice.com">www.Nanice.com</a> <a class="alignleft" href="http://" target="_blank">http://www.nanice.com/</a></p>
<p>/&#8217;Only Love is Real&#8217;/</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 10:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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<p>Do you avoid taking a deeper look into your present conditions because of the overwhelming harshness of your self-judgments?</p>
<p>When you evaluate yourself through good or bad, right or wrong rigid thinking, you reduce your perceptions down to dull, and dismal fragments of your reality.</p>
<p>When you still your mind to allow your unfulfilled longings to speak, you begin to soften and surrender into a larger capacity to experience well-being.</p>
<p>If you gently make room for this inner voice, you may hear it telling you there is much, much more to living than you are presently experiencing. You may become aware that you are actually blocking yourself from opening to the fullness and richness that surrounds you, here and now.</p>
<p>How can you find clarity about what is real and what is false about your inner dialogue?</p>
<p>When disturbing feelings about the state of your life begin to surface, it is an invitation to expand your creativity and commitment to bringing new vitality to areas that may have degenerated through neglect.</p>
<p>It takes courage to take this journey. The task is to find your real self, which resides underneath your runaway anxieties and fears.</p>
<p>This takes bravery of a different kind. It is the bravery to show up in the world without the pretense of being better than, or less than, anyone else. It means finding the courage to drop the protective armoring that attempts, but is ill equipped, to keep you safe. Begin to question the false comfort thinking that whispers that it really isn’t necessary to assume responsibility for your present state.</p>
<p>For the start of this New Year of 2010, refuse to remain lulled into lethargy, hoping to receive a better life by being an obedient follower of your status quo. The longing for a fulfilling life is realistic. The clues to fulfillment lie within you. Weed out the attitudes and beliefs that prevent you from experiencing your life as a fulfilling and meaningful quest.</p>
<p>Richness of experience exists on all levels: spiritual, physical, emotional and mental. There is an illusion that is widespread in our society. It is the temptation to use spiritual practices to grab happiness and fulfillment, while avoiding coming to terms with existing negativities, confusion, and pain.</p>
<p>The longing for a rich and rewarding life is valid. You can live without painful confusions. You can function on a level of inner resilience, contentment, and security. You can become capable of deep feelings, and of meeting life without fear.</p>
<p>This state can only be reached by facing and taking ownership of your orphaned fears and misconceptions.</p>
<p>The true challenge is to no longer fear you.</p>
<p>If you want to unravel the mystery that surrounds lack of enthusiasm for your life, start by becoming aware of what you spend your time doing. Your life is defined by what you spend your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual energy on.</p>
<p>What predominant attitudes do you hold for your work, your home, your relationships, your family, and yourself? Do you experience your involvements and commitments as a burden and an energy drain, as a blessing and energy gain, or something in-between?</p>
<p>Asking the tough questions can bring great opportunities with it. In order to set your soul free, it may be time to let go of fear of the wolves of past pain, or disappointment, so that the warmth of enthusiasm can flow once again and gift you with a wellspring of vital involvement from deep within your soul.</p>
<p><em>Susan teaches mentoring seminars locally.<strong> F</strong></em><em>or seminar information or to sign up to receive these articles by e-mail: </em><em><a href="http://www.susanvelasquez.com/">www.susanvelasquez.com</a></em><em> or reach Susan at:               (949) 494-7773         </em></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 13:39:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I made a choice to go through some personal transformations during the Christamas Holidays...no telling what I will choose for the new year at this point. It will be the first New Year that I have not scheduled myself to work the late shift whan all the action is happening.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made a choice to go through some personal transformations during the Christamas Holidays&#8230;no telling what I will choose for the new year at this point. It will be the first New Year that I have not scheduled myself to work the late shift whae all the action is happening. I am choosing to remain home with my unspiked egg-nog and my husband. This has been a period of transformation for me without a doubt. Choices for changes in my life that will manifest in the creation of life changes I am choosing for my life.</p>
<p>No, these aren&#8217;t quick and easy choices as any choice I make for change affects the lives of many around me and those I love dearly. I know for me that if I don&#8217;t make a choice, make the changes that will allow the continuation of transmformation for my life&#8230;I will remain stuck in the muck of what I already created. All choices serve a purpose for a time&#8230;then it time for new choices, new challenges, new adventures in life. The things that bring me closer and closer to achieving and manifesting the life I desire. All change is a choice, paradigms serve a purpose for a time and in the process of personal growth, development, aligning myself with my purpose&#8230;I find stepping  stones that serve their purpose well for a time being. Then as awwaresenss increases and developments and I step into my purpose more completely as it all revealed to me by following my true beliefs, shedding of the old that no longer serve  a purpose&#8230;I must forge ahead into my completeness and process of awakening.</p>
<p>This is the adventure of life&#8230;stepping out of comfort zones, folowing the derires of my heart and soul and trusting in this process that all will be just as exactly as it supposed to be in this time in my life. I learned years ago, that one cannot rest on their laurels and expect life to present the changes we each desire. We are required to take action, to move as we are so directed and inclined&#8230;and leave the results up to the Universe&#8230;it never fails so long as we willing to trust, believe, and know this is how it works.</p>
<p>We must step out of the old comfort zones into places of challenge and many times into the unknow only to reach where we know we need to be. I&#8217;ll let you know how these choices and changes materialize in my life. I can see clearly the journey and the result I intent to achieve. As I take each step forward into unchartered terreritiories for myself&#8230;all will be revealed and I will end up just where I need to be for me, my family and all of those I hold dear in my heart&#8230;This is the adventure&#8230;this is why we have a choice.</p>
<p>I am not one that accepts the muck I tend to create from time to time. What I know is that when I step out and move on&#8230;I leave no burned bridges, I leave no regrets or guilt. I clear my wreckage with full responsibily and clear consciousness. I invite the challenges of my choice&#8230;I thrive with moving my life into the life I desire and create today&#8230;how empowering! This is exactly how the shift and the creation of  new pardigms for our belief systems work with the Universe and the creation of new life.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 12:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;<strong>What would you do or what would you say?</strong></p>
<p>This is the comment from a beautiful French Lady named “Dany”, short for Marie Danielle…with a very wonderful broken English/French accent that I grew to love! This is my old neighbor from the the San Jose area of California over 18 years ago!</p>
<p>Hello KATHY<br />
Its me DANY from France. My life is a disaster . I do not have the strength to continue my life .<br />
I will explain to you later<br />
Love Dany</p>
<p>Now isn&#8217;t that amazing! I have not heard from this incredible woman in all of these years. Her husband Don who is now an &#8220;ex-husband&#8221; was one of those sport&#8217;s fanatics that seemed only to be there for Dany so many years ago to help raise their son&#8230;I knew  their son as &#8220;Buck&#8221;.  My then only son Sterling just over 2 yrs old close to 3 yrs old was not able to pronounce the &#8220;ck&#8221; sound and could call for Dany&#8217;s son only as &#8220;Butt&#8221;! It is humorous today. My son learned to ride his first training wheel 2-wheeled bicycle on &#8220;Butt&#8217;s&#8221; first bike&#8230;I remember the day Don brought it over for Sterling&#8230;yes&#8230;memories are precious. My memories are also clouded with my fog of alcoholism that the reality of what I do recall is so preciously becomming evident at this time.</p>
<p>I can still hear Dany tell me in her wonderful accent&#8230;&#8221;K`at`i&#8221; you drink too much, you must stop what you are doing&#8230;you are a fool &#8220;K`at`i! You will kill yourse;f&#8230;you must stop! No,  sorry my friends, I did not listen to this French lady with common sense and awareness of how I was detroying my life with alcohol&#8230;it took me many, many more years, before I heard Dan&#8217;ys words and understood.</p>
<p>So now I hear my friend, with so much wisdom and insight many years ago&#8230;telling me that she doesn&#8217;t have the strength to continue&#8230;her life is a disaster&#8230;she will explain to me later&#8230;when is later Dany?</p>
<p>I want to reach my friend, unsuccessfuly thus far.  I want to invite her to share of herself with me here on my website&#8230;to allow you to folow this journey of a woman in despair as a friend of mine. I will even ask Don, her ex-husband, he adores Dany, and will always love this special woman, his wife, the mother of their now grown child.</p>
<p>This is not presented for entertainment value&#8230;only for the value of how we change and grow in our lives. The shifts sometimes comes abruptly &#8230;however we know that when we slow down enough&#8230;just enough to take a deep breath&#8230;we can see that we in fact created the life we live today by our beliefs and choices&#8230;and knowing that fact&#8230;it is therefore the truth that we can in fact creat a new life based on new beliefs and new choices in any given moment&#8230;Dany, can you hear me&#8230;can you take this step with me? You are now ready to begin the life you truly desired and dreamed of all your life! If you will take my hand and walk with me&#8230;I will take you where you can choose the life you desire. If I can&#8217;t  accomplish this with you&#8230;I have an incredible life coach that has been guiding me&#8230;I&#8217;ll gladly introduce you to her&#8230;</p>
<p>You were always a strong and courageous woman, nothing ever stopped you before&#8230;please continue to connect&#8230;life is awaiting you my beautiful friend&#8230;the time is now..let us now begin a wondrful journey&#8230;the journey of your life, a truly life changing adventure that awaits you! Remember that I love you Dany.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 01:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, I can already feel the laughter from the pros and blog masters that can sit back in a comfy chair and think all kinds of thoughts about a newbie like me! Instead of laughing at me…how about laugh with me and share some real experience with me. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I started this website as a newbie, learning from scratch the technical end of how to do this site with no experience or background. I have learned so much and still have so much more to learn…it’s been a welcomed experience. I had no idea what it takes to set up and develop a website…I just woke up one day and decided that this is where my future was. I have not fully developed this website you are viewing. I never even knew what a blog was let alone dealing with plugins, themes, widgets and I still don’t understand the codes one bit! I learn each time I attempt to post or change the theme (not again…if ever!)  or just put images in the side columns.</p>
<p>One day, I logged in to find all of the images in my two side columns that have been there for months – were no longer there or visible! So where did they go? I haven’t got a clue to this day. I’m just grateful I can log in to the admin panel and somewhat find my way around. I have all of these inactive plugins because I read somewhere that they were the cure-all, fix-all for everything I needed. Most of them only brought grief and more headaches just to figure out that they served no helpful purpose. I think I have the basic necessities in place now…maybe not!</p>
<p>So, I can already feel the laughter from the pros and blog masters that can sit back in a comfy chair and think all kinds of thoughts about a newbie like me! Instead of laughing at me…how about laugh with me and share some real experience with me. I’ve refused to spend a dime on any program that promises all this magic and instant success! I have taken a few free tutorial programs…jeez…that’s how I got this far.</p>
<p>So my challenge is to see if I can get this post out to reach someone with a sincere desire to assist a newbie that has gone as far you can see right here on my website…and find someone…yes that would be YOU!…to take a little bit of time to help me and teach me more of the basics, understanding of my host…hostgator, WordPress as my watchamacallit…my cpanel, SEO benefits and how to’s, some of this dashboard stuff that baffles me….still with me? I hope to monetize at some point as well and could use the benefit of an experienced blogger to save me hours and weeks of frustration. I have some ideas I would like to run by someone that knows their stuff&#8230;that would be you!</p>
<p>I can trade services; life coaching, recovery, compassion, understanding and friendship….Now the challenge is on…I know you are reading this and reluctantly thinking….”she is not talking to or about me!” Wrong…I am speaking directly to you right now. I know this and so do you…why do you think you read this far? I’m waiting to hear from you today! I’ll save you the time to go to my contact form, just email me at <a href="mailto:live-life-today@live.com">live-life-today@live.com</a> Now we are really talking…thanks &#8220;Gus&#8221;…just kidding! You know and I know.</p>
<p>Oh, yes, my name is Kathi, just in case you didn’t get that far…my gratitude is with you already! I&#8217;d be willing to make an arrangement to pay for services after the fact&#8230;that is after I am generating an income from this website. I know you know all of the in&#8217;s and out&#8217;s and are very successfull with your site(s)already. You usually charge for your services, but you do have a loving and giving spirit and are willing to help me out a little bit&#8230;just because it feels like the right thing to do. This will be a personally rewarding experience for both of us! I&#8217;ll be checking my email shortly, I know your email will be there&#8230;thank you!</p>
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